Gay Submissives For this guy, submission is at the core of his sexual identity. He finds joy in being controlled in bed as much as showing affection and expressing love towards others; public displays of affection such as holding hands or cuddling or giving kisses give him great pleasure as do playful teasing or power exchanges between them both.

Playful teasing becomes a form of foreplay, and he craves its subtle sense of power exchange. From fisting (see #23) and forced tickling to painful sensory stimulation and other forms of painful stimulation he loves it all! Plus he enjoys role play erotica like fantasy role plays or interrogation methods to ensure maximum fun!

He finds great admiration and respect in seeing women in positions of power and authority, especially female bosses and leaders. Hearing stories about amazing female-driven projects excites him even further, while seeing you demonstrate leadership within your personal or professional life leaves him deeply impressed with you and your confidence.

BDSM may engage in “power bottom”, “bossy bottom”, or “little girl/baby girl”. These kinks do not involve actual physical abuse of anyone; rather they refer to specific forms of fetish such as humiliation, power and control, sadism/masochism that fall outside the realm of abuse that the international kink community strictly condemns.