Everyone finds different things attractive; conventional things such as someone’s smile, body type or sense of style might strike a chord while less conventional attractions may include exhibitionism (having an urge to display oneself sexually in public without consent or harm). With proper management and safety precautions taken when engaging in such behaviours can create great fetishes!

Exhibitionists feel an irresistible urge to expose their genitalia in public in ways that will surprise unknowing individuals, finding this experience sexually satisfying. Typically ingrained during adolescence or early adulthood through repeated exposure; urges to expose are typically triggered by specific locations, feelings or people as well as masturbation fantasies.

Exposing oneself to strangers can be exciting and thrilling; some exhibitionists find the thrill of performing for an audience enticing. Always remain cautious and aware of your surroundings when in crowded areas as it is easy for someone to get caught. Some exhibitionists go further by engaging in public sex such as age-play, enema play or kissing in public (I once experienced public sex during a BDSM event in a glass-encased elevator and found it highly amusing).

If you are considering consensual exhibitionism as a sexual fetish with your partner, the best approach is to start slowly. Begin in the privacy of your bedroom where you can experiment with various aspects of exhibitionism until it feels right to you. Or take part in one of BDSM events or workshops where private playrooms will be provided for participants to explore this experience further.